Wednesday, April 6, 2016

How to meet women

You are out and about with some of your best buds and suddenly this girl catches your eye. Immediately you are smitten, and your heart sings majestically to you letting you know that you just must talk to her. You begin to walk over, but then what?? What comes next? How do I get this girl to talk to me? Here's the guide to introducing yourself.

First of all. Once you see the girl do not overthink it. React within three seconds and just go for it. She'll think you're soft if it takes you all night and she'll lose interest. It is the worst to be thinking of how to approach a girl and then have her leave, or another man who is not a Future Hot Dad Of America beats you and she is bored the rest of the night. DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT!! Train yourself to just go for it the second you see her. 

Now do not approach a girl from behind. It is creepy and the last thing you want is for her first thought to be, this guy is a creep. Do not EVER approach her from behind and then poke her in her sides!!! This is the weirdest thing anyone could ever do, SO DON'T! SERIOUSLY!! Some guys think this is flirty, but DON'T!

Also do not approach straight on, this can be too forward.

Simply approach the girl at an angle. She'll see you coming, but it won't be to forward, but just natural. This natural approach is exactly what you want. This will lead into a smooth conversation and it won't send off any alerts in her head. 


After you have naturally approached her, then comes the hard part.. Talking to her. 

Pickup lines seldom work. It is hard for something so cheesy to lead to anything real. It provides a quick laugh, but that's about all it provides. 

Start a normal conversation. This can seriously be about anything. Make sure to stay up to date on current events and make the conversation intriguing. Let the girl give honest and real feedback and then the conversation will carry itself. 


So now you have started talking to the girl. You're doing great! But now we do not want to get put in the friend zone! The key to staying out of this terrible labyrinth is successful flirting. When you are flirty, she will automatically think of you as something more than just a friend. 

So make sure to read the next post about how to properly flirt. 

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