How to Flirt with the Perfect Smize

Now that you have all read my last blog on how to meet more women, lets go over what you do once you have met them.

This is very serious because if you fail then you may fall into the dark labyrinth known as the friend zone.

Staying out of the friend zone starts at the very beginning. You want her to feel comfortable around you, but if you don't play the game at least a little bit she will only view you as a friend.

So to play the game, you must properly flirt. This is very dangerous because if done wrong, you may seem extremely creepy. Also, everyone has a different way of flirting. Don't ever change your personality when flirting. Be yourself still!

Even though every girl will be different and it's always a different game to be played, here are just a few tips on how to flirt.

Practice

Yes, practice flirting. Flirt with everyone and see what comes off as creepy and normal and you can get the hint. If something is creepy, then simply don't do it! Through practice, you will gain experience and

Eye Contact

The eyes will just about always speak more than the mouth while flirting. I am not saying that you look straight at her eyes the entire time without breaking eye contact! That is just weird and a little intimidating. Just make sure that you simply give each other that occasional look and then once you have good eye contact, then just give her a little smile. She won't be able to resist smiling back.

Then for the secret weapon. This is seriously lethal, so use with caution! The smize! Beyonce is Queen of the Smize! This will break hearts everywhere is you can learn how to properly use. For those of you who don't know what a smize is, it's smiling with your eyes. To do so, simply smile, then lower your mouth to normal position while leaving your eyes in the same position. This may take some practice, but girls won't look at you the same when you have a solid smize.

Listen and Participate

Girls are smart, that means you have to be to. They will see right through you if you are not listening. Don't let your mind wander and go somewhere else. Be involved in the conversation. Keeping conversation is one of the best forms of flirting.

All you #FutureHotDadsOfAmerica have been trained! Now go out and apply what you have learned!

How to meet women

You are out and about with some of your best buds and suddenly this girl catches your eye. Immediately you are smitten, and your heart sings majestically to you letting you know that you just must talk to her. You begin to walk over, but then what?? What comes next? How do I get this girl to talk to me? Here's the guide to introducing yourself.

First of all. Once you see the girl do not overthink it. React within three seconds and just go for it. She'll think you're soft if it takes you all night and she'll lose interest. It is the worst to be thinking of how to approach a girl and then have her leave, or another man who is not a Future Hot Dad Of America beats you and she is bored the rest of the night. DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT!! Train yourself to just go for it the second you see her. 

Now do not approach a girl from behind. It is creepy and the last thing you want is for her first thought to be, this guy is a creep. Do not EVER approach her from behind and then poke her in her sides!!! This is the weirdest thing anyone could ever do, SO DON'T! SERIOUSLY!! Some guys think this is flirty, but DON'T!

Also do not approach straight on, this can be too forward.

Simply approach the girl at an angle. She'll see you coming, but it won't be to forward, but just natural. This natural approach is exactly what you want. This will lead into a smooth conversation and it won't send off any alerts in her head. 

After you have naturally approached her, then comes the hard part.. Talking to her. 

Pickup lines seldom work. It is hard for something so cheesy to lead to anything real. It provides a quick laugh, but that's about all it provides. 

Start a normal conversation. This can seriously be about anything. Make sure to stay up to date on current events and make the conversation intriguing. Let the girl give honest and real feedback and then the conversation will carry itself. 

So now you have started talking to the girl. You're doing great! But now we do not want to get put in the friend zone! The key to staying out of this terrible labyrinth is successful flirting. When you are flirty, she will automatically think of you as something more than just a friend. 

So make sure to read the next post about how to properly flirt.